Discussion about this post

User's avatar
Sue Cauhape's avatar

thank you for this article. Yes, I did read and enjoy Susan Cain's "Quiet: ...", appreciative of her acknowledgement to us who close our bedrooms doors against the rage of the world. I feel another Dad story coming on because of your post today. Dad was so shy, his teacher kept him after class to find out why he never raised his hand. After he answered all her questions about subjects discussed, she realized how shy he was and let it be. Dad's bishop, however, thought he could change Dad's shy ways, but it backfired. Dad walked out of the church and never went back. You know, people's perceptions of shy people is quiet destructive. Articles like yours and books like Cain's hopefully will change the world's views about people with "social anxiety dysfunction."

Expand full comment
EmmaG's avatar

"Must speak up more in class" was a regular feature of my school reports. I never did either. I always liked to listen, observe and only if I reeeeaaaaalllly felt the need, would I say something. Lovely post.

Expand full comment
43 more comments...

No posts